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It is said “ marriages are made in heaven. ” They are  often seen as the “ ultimate partnership ” , a promise to navigate life’s challenges together. But the reality of life can be much more complex.  Life introduces unforeseen challenge, and maintaining the “ultimate partnership” requires accomodation, trust, compromise, and growth. Marriages thrive not just on love but on continuous effort, and understanding. When these elements falter, even the strongest partnerships can struggle. When my marriage ended, it left me grappling with a mix of emotions—confusion, sadness, and even guilt. Reflecting on the reasons behind its failure has been both painful and enlightening, providing clarity and lessons for the future : l   Poor communication > "Communication to a relationship is like oxygen to life, without it - It Dies". > One of the core issues in our marriage was poor communication. Initially, we spoke openly about our dreams, fears, and expectations. Over time,...

                      What sustains the cosmos and guides our lives, yet remains elusive to define? Growing up, I often heard the word 'Dharma'  in conversations about ethics and spirituality. But it wasn’t until I studied it deeper that I truly understood its overpowering significance. Imagine a society where every individual acts in harmony with their purpose. This is the heart of Dharma. In order to understand an object or subject, one must understand the essence of it. That essence or the inner inseparable quality of a thing is what in Sanskrit they call Dharma. We derive the term dharma from the Sanskrit root verb  dhr , meaning ‘to uphold or sustain’. Dharma is a timeless and universal principle that outstrips individual religions and philosophies in Indian tradition. It serves as a guide for righteous living, social harmony, and spiritual evolution.. By aligning with dharma, individuals contribute to both personal ...

“कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन । मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भुर्मा ते संगोऽस्त्वकर्मणि ॥” One of the most  important verses  of the  Bhagavad Gita ,  Karmanye Vadhikaraste Ma Phaleshu Kadachana,  was spoken by Lord Krishna to Arjun on the battlefield of Kurukshetra during the epic Mahabharata. Let’s see what does this mean:  Karmanye Vadhikaraste , Ma phaleshou Kada chana — You have the right to perform your actions, but you are not entitled to the fruits of the actions. Ma Karma Phala Hetur Bhurmatey Sangostva Akarmani — Do not let the fruit be the purpose of your actions, therefore you won’t be attached to not doing your duty. Indeed, this message comes from  Bhagavad Gita, Chapter 2, Verse 47 , where Lord Krishna advises Arjun to focus on his duty without attachment to the results. This profound teaching emphasizes the importance of  selfless action  and is central to the philosophy of  Karma  Yoga  — performing one’s duty without ...

The   ‘ middle class ’   embodies a unique blend of practicality, ambition, and resilience. It thrives on balancing dreams with realities, finding joy in small victories, and navigating life with resourcefulness and determination. Unwritten rules for the middle class in India  often r evolve around maintaining social respectability, managing finances prudently, and striving for upward mobility. These can vary by region and culture but commonly include: 1)         Financial Prudence l    Save first, spend later:  Prioritize savings over indulgence; financial security is paramount. l  Invest in gold and property:  Owning gold and real estate is considered a safe and prestigious investment. l  Avoid debt wherever possible:   Loans are taken only for essential needs like education, home, or emergencies. l  Bargain for value:  Bargaining at markets and seeking discounts is seen as practical, not cheap. ...