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The Struggles of a Bachelor: Finding a Rented House in a New City

If you are a youngster and, more importantly, a bachelor looking for a rented flat or a house in any city, I am sure you must have invariably encountered the disheartening sight of these boards declaring “Families Only” or “Bachelors Not Allowed” outside the gates of several houses and housing societies. I cannot explain how these boards hung outside hurt your self-esteem. It seems as if we bachelors are the only villains in the world out to destroy society’s social fabric. It feels as though society has collectively branded bachelors as the ultimate disruptors, unwelcome in their carefully maintained sanctuaries. But why is this stigma attached to single tenants? Many of us have faced the frustrating experience of being turned away by landlords who prefer families over individuals. Why do we see these ‘derogatory’ or ‘insulting’ words written on boards outside houses?? It’s disheartening to see these signs and to feel judged without reason. But why do these restrictions exist? I think...
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Spend Time with Your Elders: A Connection Beyond Prayers

  Our elders are reservoirs of wisdom, history, and love—qualities that enrich our lives in countless ways. Life today often feels like a whirlwind. With tight schedules, professional commitments, and the constant distractions of digital devices, we tend to overlook one of life’s greatest treasures: the wisdom, love, and companionship of our elders. Loneliness is one of the biggest challenges many elders face, especially in the modern world where nuclear families are more common, and younger generations often move away for work. Spending time with them can have a profoundly positive impact on their mental and emotional health. A shared meal, a casual chat, or even sitting together in comfortable silence can bring them immense joy and a sense of belonging. Time is the most precious gift we can give to someone. For elders, who may often feel isolated or overlooked, your presence can be more meaningful than any material offering. In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to overlook the ...

Reflections On A Failed Marriage-Heaven To Heartache

It is said “ marriages are made in heaven. ” They are  often seen as the “ ultimate partnership ” , a promise to navigate life’s challenges together. But the reality of life can be much more complex.  Life introduces unforeseen challenge, and maintaining the “ultimate partnership” requires accomodation, trust, compromise, and growth. Marriages thrive not just on love but on continuous effort, and understanding. When these elements falter, even the strongest partnerships can struggle. When my marriage ended, it left me grappling with a mix of emotions—confusion, sadness, and even guilt. Reflecting on the reasons behind its failure has been both painful and enlightening, providing clarity and lessons for the future : l   Poor communication > "Communication to a relationship is like oxygen to life, without it - It Dies". > One of the core issues in our marriage was poor communication. Initially, we spoke openly about our dreams, fears, and expectations. Over time,...

Dharma- The Essence of Righteous Living

                      What sustains the cosmos and guides our lives, yet remains elusive to define? Growing up, I often heard the word 'Dharma'  in conversations about ethics and spirituality. But it wasn’t until I studied it deeper that I truly understood its overpowering significance. Imagine a society where every individual acts in harmony with their purpose. This is the heart of Dharma. In order to understand an object or subject, one must understand the essence of it. That essence or the inner inseparable quality of a thing is what in Sanskrit they call Dharma. We derive the term dharma from the Sanskrit root verb  dhr , meaning ‘to uphold or sustain’. Dharma is a timeless and universal principle that outstrips individual religions and philosophies in Indian tradition. It serves as a guide for righteous living, social harmony, and spiritual evolution.. By aligning with dharma, individuals contribute to both personal ...

Karmanaye Vadhikaraste- A Timeless Lesson From The Bhagwad gita

“कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन । मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भुर्मा ते संगोऽस्त्वकर्मणि ॥” One of the most  important verses  of the  Bhagavad Gita ,  Karmanye Vadhikaraste Ma Phaleshu Kadachana,  was spoken by Lord Krishna to Arjun on the battlefield of Kurukshetra during the epic Mahabharata. Let’s see what does this mean:  Karmanye Vadhikaraste , Ma phaleshou Kada chana — You have the right to perform your actions, but you are not entitled to the fruits of the actions. Ma Karma Phala Hetur Bhurmatey Sangostva Akarmani — Do not let the fruit be the purpose of your actions, therefore you won’t be attached to not doing your duty. Indeed, this message comes from  Bhagavad Gita, Chapter 2, Verse 47 , where Lord Krishna advises Arjun to focus on his duty without attachment to the results. This profound teaching emphasizes the importance of  selfless action  and is central to the philosophy of  Karma  Yoga  — performing one’s duty without ...